Wealthy Woman Wednesday Newsletter: I Can Change Your Life
I can change your life.
You may ask, How can I do that? It’s a simple answer, but the work that goes into it will depend on your effort, not your effort alone. See, I’ve helped transform some powerful women in ways that have enhanced their thriving businesses, created meaningful collaborations, and prepared them for a fulfilling future where all their work is not in vain. The one thing that they all needed was to change their environment.
The Wealthy Woman Experience touches a women’s intuition, discernment, and decision-making that caters to her needs that leaving her feeling emotionally lifted, not drained. Because at the end of the day, after putting out fires, conducting meetings, and checking numbers, her capacity tank has been depleted. Every deposit she has put into her day has been withdrawn.
So how does she get her deposits back?
So how does a change in environment benefit the wealthy woman? There are several environmental logistics involved, but let’s start with the following:
Two things: they change who they surround themselves with and where they actually “hang out”.
Choosing to be around women who have a High Vibration-Energy is everything! We all have our ups and downs in life, but wealthy women don’t sit in the “downs” too long. We must practice control over reaction and ask the questions, “Why is this happening to me? Why is this happening for me?”. “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.”-Charles R. Swindoll
Strong Sense of Self-Worth- They choose to be around women who have a positive opinion of themselves, recognize their strengths and weaknesses, and receive constructive criticism without feeling belittled or attacked. They know that no matter what positive qualities they have, not everyone is going to like them or befriend them. They are okay with that because they only want people who are assigned and aligned with them.
Maturity-A wealthy woman can cultivate and maintain secure, healthy relationships based on trust and connection. She exercises emotional control and owns up to her mistakes, shows responsibility by owning her decisions, learning lessons, and accepts that no one is perfect.
High level of focus-She runs a business or owns a business. All wealthy women respect that our businesses must be productive. This is how we build our lifestyle, take care of our families, build generational wealth, and leave a legacy. We don’t get upset or feel that we lost connection with friends when we haven’t seen or spoken to each other in a while. It’s understood, and it’s an unspoken language of picking up where we left off when we get together.
Co-collaboration-She’s not afraid to ask for assistance and support for projects that need more than one set of eyes or hands. She understands that when we include others, we multiply the efforts and the outcomes.
Community-She flourishes in her environment by creating or joining a community that supports productivity, safety, boundaries, love, and respect. She doesn’t participate in “self-centered” communities that promote risqué, inappropriate behavior, anything that attacks or demeans women. She will remove, block, unfriend, and unfollow anyone who doesn’t display high morals, beliefs, integrity, or dignity.
Philanthropy-She gives freely of herself and her money. Supporting causes financially and/or volunteering is what completes the wealthy woman. She understands that no matter how much or how much time she gives, she changes lives every day.
So, where does she “hang out”?
Conferences & Conventions
Charity Events & Boards
Fitness Centers (Yoga, Pilates, Wellness Clubs)
Luxury Resorts
Private Clubs
Sports & Leisure seats and lounges
The great thing about a wealthy woman is that she’s not limited to these places… You will also see her at places of worship, your neighborhood grocery store, or a community barbecue.
Lastly, if you’re looking for a community of high-powered, energetic women, please visit my website at deborahflemmingbradley.com or on Instagram @wealthywomandeposits.
With Love & Joy,
Deborah Flemming Bradley